Purposefully Confident | Self Esteem, Overcome Self-Doubt, Faith, Boost Confidence, Comparison
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Do you wish you could overcome self-doubt and silence the voice that says you are not enough?
Are you constantly comparing yourself to people you see on social media or at work?
Do you wish you could feel more confident about yourself?
Are you sick and tired of feeling like an impostor?
I am so glad you are here!!
In this podcast, you’ll learn how to use God’s word to overcome self-doubt.
How to use scriptures for meditation.
And gain more knowledge about God through bible study.
You’ll learn practical tips such as affirmations to help you build solid, deeply rooted and unshakable confidence in who God has called you to be.
My name is Osariemen. I’m a wife, a Mom, and a Christian Life Coach.
I lost both parents at a crucial age, and I thought I had lost all my sense of security, which sent me down the spiral of years battling insecurity, low self-worth, rejection and the haunting question: “Am I even gifted at all?”
I spent my time online googling ”how to be more confident in myself,” but my confidence kept on wavering.
I finally realized that if I was going to build unshakable confidence, I had to create a simple strategy to help me gain knowledge about God, heal deep wounds and reveal my identity in Christ.
But as I began to grow spiritually, the Holy Spirit began to heal those deep wounds and reveal to me my true identity in Christ.
Now, I’m on a mission to help you do the same.
So, if you’re ready to overcome self-doubt, grow your confidence, and stop comparing yourself to others, plug in your EarPods and let’s dive in.
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Episodes

Friday Dec 19, 2025
Friday Dec 19, 2025
Is your poor self-esteem quietly holding you back from the life God designed for you?
In this powerful episode, we confront the real reason many Christian women struggle with confidence, purpose, and consistency — low self-esteem and a distorted self-image. If you’ve ever felt unqualified, insecure, stuck, or disconnected from who God says you are, this episode will meet you right where you are.
We explore how the finished work of Jesus Christ already made provision for healing your self-image and why building a God-given identity is not optional if you want to walk boldly in your purpose. You’ll learn the difference between culture’s version of confidence and biblical identity rooted in Christ, and why true transformation requires both instant spiritual solutions and ongoing daily practices.
In this episode, we cover:
How poor self-image forms and why it keeps you stuck
The role of prayer, spiritual warfare, and therapy in healing low self-esteem
Why knowing God deeply is key to rebuilding your identity
How the Word of God reshapes your mindset and self-worth
The power of confession, relationships, and serving from your zone of divine effectiveness
Practical steps to build lasting confidence and emotional healing as a Christian woman
You’ll also receive guided prayer points to help you break mental strongholds, renew your mind, and begin seeing yourself the way God sees you.
This episode is part of the mini-series “Break Free From Low Self-Esteem & Walk in Who God Says You Are” and is especially for women who are ready to stop living from wounds and start living from truth.
🎧 Listen now and take the next step toward healing your self-image, renewing your mind, and walking fully in your God-given identity.
Prayer points mentioned in this episode:
Father, reveal Yourself to me through the Scriptures. Help me encounter You in Your Word.
Father, help me see who You have made me in Christ Jesus and who You ordained me to be before the foundations of the earth.
By the power in the name of Jesus, let every stronghold in my mind that distorts how I see myself be broken now.
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Friday Dec 12, 2025
Friday Dec 12, 2025
In this powerful and honest episode, we’re going beneath the surface and uncovering the real roots of low self-esteem — the wounds, experiences, and spiritual battles that shaped how you see yourself long before you had the words to describe it.
If you made it through Episode 1, sis… congratulations. You’ve already proven you’re hungry for transformation and brave enough to face the truth. Today, we continue that journey with love, clarity, and zero shame.
We’ll break down the 5 major causes of low self-esteem that most women never recognize. DIVE IN!
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Friday Dec 05, 2025
13 | Understanding Low Self Esteem and How to Break Free From It (Series 1)
Friday Dec 05, 2025
Friday Dec 05, 2025
In this power-packed opening episode, we’re peeling back the layers and getting real about the silent struggle so many Christian women face: low self-esteem. Not the cute Instagram kind—the deep, hidden, “I love God but I still feel not enough” kind.
We dive into what low self-esteem truly is biblically, mentally, and emotionally, why so many daughters of God quietly wrestle with it, and how the way you see yourself has been shaped far more by wounds than by truth. This is a gentle but honest invitation to bring your hidden battles into the light and finally name what’s been holding you back.

Wednesday Nov 19, 2025
12 | Feeling Invisible? The Hidden Value You Carry and Don’t Even Realize.
Wednesday Nov 19, 2025
Wednesday Nov 19, 2025
Ever feel invisible — like your gifts are hidden in plain sight? This episode is your reminder that God placed value in you long before the world ever had an opinion about you. We’re breaking down the two kinds of value you carry: the built-in worth God gave you at creation, and the unique value shaped through your life experiences, skills, personality, and even the things you’ve survived.
Through scripture and practical insight, you’ll learn how to recognize what’s already in you, how to develop the value you’re still growing, and how to place yourself in environments where your God-given potential can shine.
If you’ve ever wrestled with feeling unseen, unqualified, or unsure of what you bring to the table, this episode will help you shift your mindset, reclaim your worth, and see yourself the way God already does — valuable, purposeful, and full of promise.

Wednesday Nov 12, 2025
Wednesday Nov 12, 2025
Ever wondered what exactly God created you to do and how to live it out with confidence and clarity? In this episode, we’re diving deep into Scripture to uncover a 3-step biblical framework for discovering and walking boldly in your God-given purpose.
Using Paul’s story as our guide, you’ll learn how to:Clarify the message God has entrusted to you.Identify the medium — the unique way He’s called you to communicate it.Discern the audience you’ve been called to serve.
Whether you’re a creative, entrepreneur, or ministry leader, this conversation will help you stop comparing, start obeying, and fully embrace the call on your life with grace and boldness.

Wednesday Nov 05, 2025
Wednesday Nov 05, 2025
Tired of having a low self-esteem?In this powerful episode, I'm sharing 4 scriptures that will help you gain confidence and build your self-esteem as a Christian woman.
If you’ve ever felt stuck in self-doubt, battled negative self-talk, or believed you weren’t good enough, this message is your wake-up call. You’ll learn how to silence the lies of the enemy and replace them with the truth of God’s Word.
Dr. Myles Munroe said "Whatever you tolerate, you will never change.” It’s time to stop tolerating the mindset that says you’re not talented, not gifted, or not enough. You are royalty. You are chosen. You are the daughter of a King.
Through scriptures like Matthew 5:14, Judges 6:11, Jeremiah 1:5, and Psalm 139:14, you’ll discover who you really are in Christ—and how to rebuild your confidence from the inside out.
In this episode, you’ll learn how to:✨ Recognize and replace negative self-talk✨ Embrace your God-given gifts and strengths✨ Surround yourself with life-giving people✨ Meditate on God’s truth until it becomes your new reality
Your self-esteem was attacked for one reason—to keep you from fulfilling your destiny. But it ends here. It’s time to rise up, walk in confidence, and see yourself the way God sees you.
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Friday Oct 24, 2025
Friday Oct 24, 2025
Ever tried to pray after disconnecting from God for a while, and feeling unworthy? I've been there.
In this episode, I get real about what it means to come back to God after you’ve fallen away. You’ll learn that falling isn’t failure — it’s just the setup for building a better relationship with God.
It will remind you that you were never disqualified and the Father is still waiting with arms open, ready to run toward you.
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Friday Oct 17, 2025
Friday Oct 17, 2025
Have you ever felt a deep pull toward something — a dream, a purpose — but fear, confusion, or doubt kept you from stepping out? You’re not alone.
In this episode, I breakdown a simple 3-step faith framework to help you recognize, embrace, and walk boldly in your God-given calling. These 3 key stages will help you determine what season you are in.
Whether you’re discovering your purpose, in a waiting season, or ready to step into what God’s calling you to do — this episode will help you find the confidence and courage to say “yes” to God’s plan for your life.
Tune in and be reminded: You don’t need to have it all figured out, you've been called, you've been chosen.
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Wednesday Oct 08, 2025
Wednesday Oct 08, 2025
In this powerful episode, we’re exposing the hidden internal barriers that keep so many women stuck in fear, perfectionism, procrastination, and people-pleasing. Through scripture, truth, and practical tools, you’ll learn how to break free from the lies that have been holding you hostage.
If you’ve been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or questioning your purpose, this episode is for you, so grab your journal, hit play, and let’s expose the barriers that have no business controlling your destiny.

Wednesday Sep 24, 2025
06 | 6 Ways to Identify Your Gifting and Calling to Never Feel Stuck
Wednesday Sep 24, 2025
Wednesday Sep 24, 2025
Do you ever feel stuck, wondering what your purpose really is or questioning what you’re even good at? You’re not alone, and the good news is, God has already placed unique giftings, skills, and passions inside of you to guide your calling.
In today’s episode, we’re breaking down 6 practical, faith-filled ways to identify your gifting and calling so you never have to feel stuck again. From praying with the Holy Spirit to uncovering your spiritual gifts, reflecting on your challenges, and putting your talents into action, you’ll learn step-by-step how to embrace your God-given uniqueness with confidence.









